What is a Vigil?
When a loved one passes, families often seek time to gather, reflect, and say their goodbyes in a meaningful way. One way to honor that need is through a vigil is a sacred time of presence and remembrance. At Orchid Cremations, we offer vigil options as part of our cremation packages to give families space for connection, healing, and farewell.
A Time of Presence and Reflection
A vigil is a period of watchfulness and gathering that can take place in a home or hospital prior to someone passing. It may be quiet and reflective, or filled with stories, prayers, music, and ritual. The purpose is simple: to provide a loving environment where family and friends can sit with their loved one and say goodbye in their own way.
What Happens During a Vigil?
Each vigil is unique, shaped by the wishes of the family. Some choose an intimate, private moment, while others invite extended family and friends. A vigil may include:
Quiet Reflection: Sitting together in peace, sharing presence and comfort.
Personal Rituals: Lighting candles, reciting prayers, or honoring cultural traditions.
Music and Words: Reading poetry, scripture, or playing favorite songs.
Storytelling: Sharing memories and reflections that celebrate a life well-lived.
Final Goodbyes: Offering time for each person to say farewell.
Orchid Cremations Vigil Options
We understand that saying goodbye looks different for every family. That’s why we’ve created cremation packages that include vigil opportunities, such as:
Direct Cremation & Vigil – A simple cremation with the option for loved ones to have a final farewell
Direct Cremation with Vigil & Parting Stones – Includes a vigil, along with the return of your loved one’s remains in solidified form for a lasting memorial.
Water Cremation & Vigil – An eco-friendly option combined with the opportunity for family presence and farewell.
By including vigils in our packages, we are showcasing that cremation does not have to be without ceremony and we give families a way to slow down and create meaningful moments before their loved one is taken for cremation.
Why Families Choose a Vigil with Orchid Cremations
In times of loss, it’s easy to feel rushed or swept up in logistics. A vigil provides a pause—time to honor, reflect, and connect. Families often tell us that these moments help them begin the healing process and bring a sense of peace to an otherwise overwhelming time.
You can learn more about our Vigil Options and how we partner with The Death Network